-- Posted by Rabbit4U at 8:09 pm on June 7, 2008 My friend told me what happened between she and her boyfriend.  In your opinions, do you think this is wrong on his part and are you a guy or girl? They dated a long time in high school and she was a year older, so they still dated when she went to college her freshman year.  The boyfriend also decided to go to her SAME college the following year. But like pretty much a week before college started in August (she was sophomore and he was freshman), He broke up with her!  He said that he didn't love her anymore... The awkard part is that they not only went to the same school, but they also lived in the SAME dormitory!!   He would be a jerk and openly flirt with the girls on her floor in front of her.  And that would be ok with me BUT the dorm was majority female (6 floors were girls, only 2 of guys)....of all floors, he picked HERS to flirt on... And it hurt her soooooooooo much! Another shitty factor is that only 6 months later, he got a new girlfriend . . . . and this new girlfriend (who he's still dating) happened to be roommates with the his Ex's BEST FRIEND!   So anytime my friend wanted to see her BFF, she had to go into her Exboyfriend's new girl...and it was very uncomfortable, especially if he was in there. Do you think he dicked her over? -- Posted by Hep at 8:09 pm on June 7, 2008 yes -- Posted by camillelong 26 at 8:10 pm on June 7, 2008 he sounds kinda like a douche bag...but if he really liked that chick then..:S....but flirting on her floor was totally mean.... -- Posted by naeebbyakalyric at 8:15 pm on June 7, 2008 He's a asshole Usually guys do things like that through jealousy or to get back at a girl...but...what was his reason???? UGH! i hate guys like that!!! Oh, and I'm a girl -- Posted by californiaboy at 12:16 pm on June 8, 2008 Sounds like a douchebag...BUT 6 months is a LONG ass time to wait. 6 weeks would have been fine for crying out loud. -- Posted by Rabbit4U at 10:50 pm on June 8, 2008 Quote: from californiaboy at 12:16 pm on June 8, 2008 BUT 6 months is a LONG ass time to wait. 6 weeks would have been fine for crying out loud. I agree that he waited a long time with is current girlfriend to get serious. BUT, he was actually very very very interested in another particular girl (again, who lived on his ex's floor).  This was soon after the breakup, probably a few weeks to like a month. He was mad crazy for her and liked her a ton. They talked for a little, but basically she was not liking how "physical" he was becoming with her and ended it.  So I assume he really wanted sex and then they dropped it. -- Posted by somelikeitred at 4:57 am on June 10, 2008 yeah he's a jerk -- Posted by nik1 at 1:38 pm on June 10, 2008 Random thoughts: -You are into something that is none of your business -You are only hearing one side of the story...hers. -If he broke up with her and told her then he has no       obligation to her any longer -People that are hurt in the break up of a relationship are looking for any reason to believe that they were done wrong.  It's apparently over. Both you and her need to drop it. -- Posted by abrocks22 at 3:29 pm on June 10, 2008 yes... thats sketchy