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-- Posted by Anonymous at 7:25 am on June 12, 2008

if a guy kind of asks you extremely casually if you did anything with another guy would you take it to mean that he's not at all interested in you like that? because this is the sort of way i talk with my friends. with guys im into i dont mention things like that, so i duno if it would be the same.

here's the context, so it makes more sense.

[19:34] j: so i made this one guy buy me a bunch of liquor haha
[19:34] j: it was great
[19:34] f: lol
[19:35] f: did he get a return on his investment?
[19:35] j: i dont think so... i think i lost him haha


-- Posted by jnyluvshllster95 at 7:26 am on June 12, 2008

well maybe he just wanted 2 know but it could mean somethin


-- Posted by boombabyy at 7:27 am on June 12, 2008

He may just be wondering


-- Posted by aisling1991 at 7:27 am on June 12, 2008

he was just asking


-- Posted by Lahanalove at 7:28 am on June 12, 2008

I think it sort of means that he's interested in how you interact with guys..
It might mean he's seeing if you're too much of a flirt for him or if you're interested in someone else...
or he might just be asking...
I can't really tell with the information...

Try hanging out with him say it's casual and look for little things like him trying to touch your arm or such you know little body language flirting


-- Posted by somelikeitred at 7:29 am on June 12, 2008

he was just asking a question....dont look too into it


-- Posted by pwincess unome at 7:32 am on June 12, 2008

just asking


-- Posted by purplelove202 at 10:54 am on June 12, 2008

My boyfriend will tease me like that too.  My boyfriend finds me attractive and last night during a break from free poker, he told me that some of the guys were talking about hitting on me within ear-distance of him.  

Maybe your boyfriend finds you extremely attractive and is worried that another guy will somehow seduce you.  

That's what I feel like my boyfriend does.  He's worried.  He's somewhat possessive and jealous, but in a very cute way.
I worry the same thing about him and the girls at poker!  He's extremely attractive and girls talk to him, even if I'm already out of the game, watching him - with my legs open and around his chair.  

Girls and boys / Women and men are all somewhat possessive.  It's natural to want -what or who you love- all to yourself.


-- Posted by Coreyt at 7:55 pm on June 12, 2008

idk like i like this girl, and what i did was when she was mentioning a guy friend i said something like Ohhhhh a friend or a "FFFRRRieend" and she said only a friend,  Just to make sure she wasn't into the guy she was talking about.  I'm through likeing girls who like someone else so i wanted to kinda wanted to feel my way through to see if she liked someone.   Guys may ask stuff just to see if you like someone


-- Posted by Dave310 at 11:36 am on June 13, 2008

the best way to find out is to ask


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