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-- Posted by Anonymous at 6:39 pm on June 12, 2008

so girls, lets say you randomly meet a guy at college.....he flirts with you and you flirted back, he even called you "hey sexy..."

it was great, and then you go on facebook to friend him.....you find out that he's "in a relationship"

how would you feel?  would that have any effect on your impression of his character?


-- Posted by Lally at 6:40 pm on June 12, 2008

Well i would think to myself, "player" and move on.


-- Posted by Latin Muscle at 6:40 pm on June 12, 2008

Sometimes we are just too flirty, but  he could be a cheater and player so watch out.


-- Posted by yayamonkeys at 6:40 pm on June 12, 2008

Quote: from lally at 8:40 pm on June 12, 2008


Well i would think to myself, "player" and move on.

same here


-- Posted by snowcone200 at 6:40 pm on June 12, 2008

He is trying to tease you and perhaps use you. See for some guys theres the "Wifey" the girl he actually cares for and then theres the bitch or ho. The girl they use and tease well luckily you didn't fall for it or did you.


-- Posted by kathhleennx at 6:41 pm on June 12, 2008

i wouldn't reallly caaare


-- Posted by brittany101 at 6:41 pm on June 12, 2008

it shouldnt bother you... get over it...totaly not worth it


-- Posted by 25924225 at 6:42 pm on June 12, 2008

somtimes people just put taht like ive seen people have that who r single or watever he cud of jsut gotten out of a relationship and not have changed it idk i wud indirectly ask him some way


-- Posted by MorningStar at 6:43 pm on June 12, 2008

Quote: from lally at 5:10 am on June 13, 2008


Well i would think to myself, "player" and move on.

That's what I was thinking at first, but there is a such thing as polyamory.  People can be in romantic love (Eros) with two or more people at the same time, because it's happened to me in the past.

So maybe he might have an open relationship with his girlfriend (although not many people know about polyamory so he probably doesn't).


-- Posted by xbritishprincessx at 6:45 pm on June 12, 2008

Quote: from lally at 2:40 am on June 13, 2008


Well i would think to myself, "player" and move on.

same


-- Posted by PAOlivia at 6:46 pm on June 12, 2008

there is nothing wrong with flirting now if he tries anymore say good bye


-- Posted by Ezmi at 6:51 pm on June 12, 2008

Lol didnt you get this in HS?
i mean, most of my friends call me out like that..
it really doesnt mean much.. he's jus doin his best to catch your attention

if you go over to him and he talks and you think he's flirtin, you know maybe thats jsut the way he is. he's confident enough to call ya that in public.. he just knows girls good enough to know what they like to hear. its like a baby.. they know they get more attention if they scream than if they stay quite. thats sorta like what he's doin...
dont take it offensive if ya find out he's got a girl =)


-- Posted by Dave310 at 11:38 am on June 13, 2008

you shouldn't feel anything. I guy will flirt with anyone who gives him attention. Don't take it so seriously. Just because he flirts doesn't mean he is into you.


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