-- Posted by PrincessPegs21 at 9:51 pm on June 13, 2008 It's been a while since I've been on here. So help w/ this LONG story would be wonderful. :) I've been with this guy Devan for about a month, and we've had sex twice. He's really great, but he's a year and one month younger then me. I know I want a relationship, and he just wants to party. I know this, but it's like I can't get him out my head, and I can't stop running back to him. He really does have me right where he wants me. We are "together" without a title right now. It's really hard when he says stuff like "I'm really jealous so I don't want to know what you do, and I won't tell you what I do". We have talked about it and that means we can go on dates/kiss other people... BUT NO SEX with anyone else. We both work in the mall and every time I get ready to walk by to go to work he grabs my hand and kisses me in front of everyone.   BUT-- One time I went there and asked "Is Dev gone yet?" and his friend/employee said "yeah, and your like the 5th girl that's come to see him since". i asked him about it and he laughed, and said "are you serious" then just looked at me and kissed me and told me not to worry about it. Nowwww(whew), my questions are: Am I wasting my time? Is he going to settle down for me? Does it seem like he even cares? What's going on in his head? -- Posted by cody c box at 9:55 pm on June 13, 2008 COOL -- Posted by lovepuppy14 at 9:55 pm on June 13, 2008 He's a guy...He has a dick...WTF Do U think??!!! -- Posted by BackPorch at 9:56 pm on June 13, 2008 You are only wasting your time if he isn't what you are looking for. If you okay with the way things are going right now, then you are not wasting your time. You are living your life, being young, and having fun. He may be waiting for you to ask him to "settle down" with you. It can't hurt to ask. It seems like he cares to me, but I hardly have enough information to tell. I have no idea what is going on in his head. He is the only one who can tell you that. If you are looking for a serious relationship it doesn't seem like this is the best situation for you. Obviously it is bothering you though, so I really think you should talk to him about it, even if it is just casually. -- Posted by earthjunkie at 10:00 pm on June 13, 2008 First off, age? -- Posted by PlugInBaby at 10:03 pm on June 13, 2008 Hes a guy. He might want to be with you =) -- Posted by Nalexandra09 at 10:03 pm on June 13, 2008 i think its a waste of time if it  keeps going the way it is. He may not want to settle. Talk to him and tell him you wanna go exclusive and not be in an open relationship, i dont know what hes thinking but maybe hes still thinking of wat to do with you- alot of guys would have gone exclusive by now- so ithink he may be scared of commitment and getting attached -- Posted by muahzxox3 at 10:04 pm on June 13, 2008 He's a playerrr, play his game & totally play him out. Make sure his control will be the one that will get the game over voice over lol. -- Posted by Casey Burns at 10:05 pm on June 13, 2008 Ask him those questions and tell him to be honest.