-- Posted by steamydumplings at 10:43 am on June 15, 2008 dear god,    this is kenny writing to you.i cant believe you did this to me and my gf.i dont know what we did to deserve what you did to us.all we wanted to do was to be together forever but you stepped in and stopped that from happening.what compelled you to this such a thing.why did you let her family find those things?why did you make her family the way they are?i dont blame them for their actions.i blame you for making them the way they are.i believe in destiny and that things happen for a reason.i guess it was destiny that this would happen but the thing that writes our destiny is you so i blame you for this.im sorry but you made thi happen.now i cant ever see her or talk to her,BECAUSE OF YOU!.i want to know why this had to happen.if things happen for a reason, then whats the reasoning behind this.id like to know.ive heard from a lot of people that "god is love".if god is love then why did this happen?is there even a god?god wouldnt let this happen to anyone if god existed.if you real,then sorry for questioning your existance.so to god up there,please hep me make things work out...please                                                         sincerely,                                                    cant believe this -- Posted by sdquinn at 10:45 am on June 15, 2008 Details? I understand how easy it may be to blame God for all your problems, but this is not the right course of action to take. People have free will and act on it, which seems to have doomed your scenario. But give us more details on your scenario. -- Posted by erolimo at 10:51 am on June 15, 2008 He does not have time to read this. -- Posted by Hi Carie at 11:00 am on June 15, 2008 Why is God to blame? What happened? Why is it His fault and not yours? -- Posted by MushroomSatsujin at 11:00 am on June 15, 2008 God isnt listening. -- Posted by goosebumps at 11:15 am on June 15, 2008 Wait, what happened? From what you said it seems like either your/your gf's fault or no ones fault, but it's certainly not Gods fault. Why are you blaming God? -- Posted by steamydumplings at 11:17 am on June 15, 2008 im blaming god cause gods the one that wirtes our destinys.he made this our destiny.he didnt have to make this our destiny but he chose to.i apologize to god for blaming him. i just dont know what to do anymore =( -- Posted by jazzy8567 at 11:17 am on June 15, 2008 its not gods fault its yours! god didnt tell you to do anything that you did. you did it on your own.. and now when you need help you expect god to come along and help you... i think all things have a purpose.. if you to are ment to be together than you will be.. if you are ment to be with someone else then you will be.. but dont blame god for you actions and mistakes.. blame youself. and ask for forgiveness then god will actally help you with your pain and sorrow.. but dont blame someone who has kept you alive and breathing for all these years.. okkkk -- Posted by MushroomSatsujin at 11:20 am on June 15, 2008 Quote: from goosebumps at 11:15 am on June 15, 2008 Wait, what happened? From what you said it seems like either your/your gf's fault or no ones fault, but it's certainly not Gods fault. Why are you blaming God? Because people dont want to blame themselves. Why else do you think theres a god? We need someone to blame for our shortcomings -- Posted by steamydumplings at 11:22 am on June 15, 2008 alright...forget everything bout blaming god...i realized its not his fault but mine by deciding to do what i did...im sorry god...and thanks razzy for talking some sence into me =] -- Posted by Uruz 7 at 6:32 pm on June 22, 2008 So I assume you're religious (to a certain point) Lets get this very clear - ONE: God gave man the freedom of choice. In any religion this is the norm. We as humans choose to follow God or not. TWO: God is the Alpha and Omega. In most religions this is the norm. He's a supernatural divine being superior to us in every aspect. THREE: What God does is none of your f***in business. You don't like it, he gave you the choice to leave. I'm sick of listening to crybabies screaming high and low as if armageddon has come when they separate from their gf bf or whatever the f it is . . . Before you start blaming God for your so calle fate, take a look inside . . . AND even if God didn't want the two of you together - WHO THE HELL ARE YOU TO COMPLAIN? SO STFU and suck it up, and learn to see where we went wrong, not God. You know its really interesting to know that we can listen much more clearly when we stop screaming high and low - God's voice is very hard to hear - because many a time we just don't wanna hear it. I believe in God, and I grant Him that highest place in my life - He crafts my destiny, and it is up to me to fulfill that destiny, OR lose it - Happy or not I don't know, but if I do fulfil it, I will be content with who I am. . . 1. Whose fault is it? You or God? When you fail to keep things under control it becomes God's? fault? God already cleaned His hands by giving us freedom of choice. God said - this is My plan for you, you can choose if you want to take it or not. If you don't like it, you are free to go. 2. When it hurts, quieten down and listen for His voice. Cause and effect - God doesn't meddle in every single thing on this Earth, but He does let things happen under His permission. Cause and Effect. You blindly jump into love you'll get hurt - simple fact that has lasted generations. 3. Have some self-respect - don't you think you're acting like a little kid? WTH is this? ITs the College Forums! I'm sorry if thats a little harsh, but people learn much faster when they are thrown into something called reality. I won't try to hide that from you. -- Posted by Anonymous at 1:58 pm on June 24, 2008 Woo i'm glad i'm an atheist! That way i don't have to ask "why!" about the fact that if there WAS a GOD he's responsible for the deaths of my parents and all the other people i love, the destruction of my life and the world around me. and before someone says i'm responsible for my pain, i honestly can't see how my loving parents dying is MY fault, and if it were their fault why couldn't he just give us an emotional cut-off switch so we didn't feel the pain from loved ones dying.   if He were real and He wrote the rules (bible) he should have made them clearer, people get hurt when u leave things up to man's interpretation. Iron manufacturers have gotten sued for less, that's why they have warnings on the box that are clear to even a 2yo. (step1: remove clothing BEFORE attempting to iron!) for me bad things happen just b/c, it comforts me to know there is no crazy plan 1,000's of years in the making that somehow requires me to lose everything. But i understand religion helps you cope so i wish u both the best of luck. don't know the details (pregnancy, fam. found condoms, bad pics,etc.) but unless someone died things can get better and mistakes can at times be reversed.good luck! -- Posted by Cosmic Consciousness at 12:53 pm on July 9, 2008 Don't blame God for anything. It happened for a reason, but God gave you, your girlfriend, and her parents free will. God doesn't make yours or anyones decisions or personalities. Your letter is blasphemy.