-- Posted by Anonymous at 11:55 pm on June 15, 2008 last saturday, my bf went to spend the night at a friend's. okay. then sunday afternoon i call him to hang out like we always do and he said we could this weekend but didn't answer. okay, maybe he wasn't home yet. i called probably 5 times between noon and 9 p.m. and he never answered. i was freaking out. i thought maybe something horrible had happened. (here's my problem so pay attention) i thought the worse immediately like a car accident, a robbery, or anything worse (i even almost considered avoidance, or cheating, but then i remembered who i was talking about). i always think the worst and it was driving me insane with worry, reason completely left behind me. is that like an anxiety issue??? idk, maybe a control issue too??? my sister sort of had it after a traumatizing experience, but that makes sense, i never had anything like that. but we're a lot alike in many ways (personality and even body frame/type) but then this weekend, i knew he was going to stay the night at a friend's and that we wouldn't hang out today and i was/am perfectly fine...is that like a control issue to you, i was fine cause i knew where he was? idk how else to explain it....any ideas? anyone else like this??? .... -- Posted by Desertfoxel at 11:57 pm on June 15, 2008 sometimes -- Posted by WetGirl at 11:58 pm on June 15, 2008 I think it is a control issue!! You wanted to know where he was and what is was doing. You don't seem to have a problem when you know where he is and what he is doing. Control,  huh? -- Posted by Anonymous at 12:01 am on June 16, 2008 Quote: from WetGirl at 11:58 pm on June 15, 2008 I think it is a control issue!! You wanted to know where he was and what is was doing. You don't seem to have a problem when you know where he is and what he is doing. Control, huh? hmmm...maybe i should have explained a little more. i don't need to know exact who, what, where, when why...just that he's with a friend and he's okay. i didn't know that for sure last week and it freaked me out...and he doesn't have a cell phone to boot...this week i knew he's be out with friends all weekend and he'd be fine and i was okay that's why i don't consider myself controlling, it just scares me sometimes...the way i act like that freaked out -- Posted by pumpkin475 at 12:10 am on June 16, 2008 you're normal and you care