-- Posted by Anonymous at 12:07 am on June 16, 2008 So I met her last week of school and i really liked her.  anyways, i dont see her again until this august when college starts again. Can I ask her out now and plan a date for first week of school to let her know i like her?  or should i wait until we get back to school?  because i dont want her to potentially stay with someone else without maybe considering all her options. is it weird/creepy to ask out a girl 2 months ahead of time? -- Posted by Trastie at 12:09 am on June 16, 2008 Not the smartest of moves. -- Posted by deadsilent at 12:09 am on June 16, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 12:07 am on June 16, 2008 So I met her last week of school and i really liked her. anyways, i dont see her again until this august when college starts again. Can I ask her out now and plan a date for first week of school to let her know i like her? or should i wait until we get back to school? because i dont want her to potentially stay with someone else without maybe considering all her options. is it weird/creepy to ask out a girl 2 months ahead of time? That would be kinda weird. -- Posted by DragonLady at 12:09 am on June 16, 2008 Go for it. If she likes you, still stay true through the time you're not together. If she doesn't like you enough to do that, either you don't know each other well enough and should give it time, or just move on. But no matter her response, go for it. -- Posted by TheAntiBarbie at 12:11 am on June 16, 2008 I think it would be weird. Perhaps you should mention it, but not set a date or anything. -- Posted by filo freak316 at 12:11 am on June 16, 2008 ask her it might be too late. -- Posted by Epicure at 12:12 am on June 16, 2008 That's kinda creepy, actually. -- Posted by poet01 at 12:19 am on June 16, 2008 ok, thats not creepy or weird!!! just instead of askin her out just slowly work it in their. i mean...urrr. i'm trying to get this out of my head on into words. ok, u want the chick. u like her. but oooo, i gots it!!!! my best advice that always works for me when im really thinkin bout somethin. ok, here it is, lol. b her. yes i said it. b her. act like ur her, but only in ur head. try to c things from her point of view. u met so u kinda know her, just think if u were her, would it creep u out?? would it b sweeet?? or is their somethin else u would lik ebetter, some other approach. i think it will work out for u no matter what u do, i hope so anywayzz. good luck, and i hope i helped -- Posted by betz at 12:25 am on June 16, 2008 thats NOT creepy or weird i think u shuld do it!!! at least that way if she does say no she wuld hav 4gotten about it by the time u go bk 2 school lol -- Posted by 636lover at 2:14 pm on June 18, 2008 i'm a girl and i approve the following message :) I don't think it's creepy or weird. I know u said u won't see her again until august but is that b/c she's going somewhere far away or b/c u want to ask her out to an event dealing w/ school. Also do you know if she's into you? if she is she won't want you to wait. If u physically aren't going to be around her than casually suggest that you hang out when school is back in session. In the meantime get her number and chat. hopefully since you've known her since the last week of school she'll give it to you and you can charm her over the phone. if she doesn't have a bf. If you will see her during the school break then don't wait ask her out on a date for this weekend or so.