-- Posted by AthenaRuth at 7:30 pm on June 16, 2008 I have a gay friend. He's very sweet, he dresses pretty well, spends a lot of money on his wardrobe. He dresses kind of like Ryan Seacrest. His voice is a little high pitched but he's a great friend. We go to the movies all the time and out to eat with other friends. He's really funny, with a sarcastic sense of humor. But aaah! I've fallen in love with him, as a guy. And I was wondering if I could turn him un-gay, straight or whatever? And if he could ever like me???? Is it possible for someone to change that part about themselves, change their sexual preferences? -- Posted by snowcone200 at 7:30 pm on June 16, 2008 He's probably just gay to be cool. -- Posted by Jadien at 7:30 pm on June 16, 2008 Not going to happen. ): -- Posted by ashleyacid at 7:31 pm on June 16, 2008 You can turn him straight if hes gay. And that just selfish of you to want to do that. -- Posted by GaelicFreak at 7:31 pm on June 16, 2008 No. -- Posted by Disposition at 7:31 pm on June 16, 2008 If he's really and truly gay and not bi... Nope, you can't. -- Posted by ashleyacid at 7:31 pm on June 16, 2008 Quote: from ashleyacid at 10:31 pm on June 16, 2008 You can turn him straight if hes gay. And that just selfish of you to want to do that. That suposed to be Can't. -- Posted by mrmartyr at 7:31 pm on June 16, 2008 no, darling. But you'll notice, that a straight guy who is masculine...that has some of the same interests that you do...will win ur heart much more then a....chick with a dick at heart. ya know? -- Posted by AthenaRuth at 7:31 pm on June 16, 2008 Quote: from snowcone200 at 7:30 pm on June 16, 2008 He's probably just gay to be cool. He said he has a crush on one of our other friends. He's a guy. -- Posted by tenchi1084 at 7:31 pm on June 16, 2008 it's possible.  but why?  I mean, I like some straight men, but I'm not gonna turn them gay just because I want to take them out on dates.  some guys are just not available, that's life.  it's unfortunate, but the truth. why not look for those qualities in straight men?  I know they are out there. -- Posted by Dreams to Despair at 7:32 pm on June 16, 2008 I don't think you can turn him straight. -- Posted by sexytinkerbelle at 7:32 pm on June 16, 2008 it will be hard but im sure u can -- Posted by BackPorch at 7:32 pm on June 16, 2008 If he is really gay you can't turn him straight. People are born that way -- Posted by lindsayyy at 7:32 pm on June 16, 2008 Quote: from Mexicanchika at 7:30 pm on June 16, 2008 Now all Americans are bi and some are gay sorry..LOL like you you post the lamest shit back to people -- Posted by sdquinn at 7:32 pm on June 16, 2008 If it's how he truly feels, then there's nothing you can do about it. -- Posted by Syber at 7:32 pm on June 16, 2008 Well, He might be Bi, But if not, then no sorry =/ -- Posted by LastOneCrying at 7:32 pm on June 16, 2008 I dont think you can... But good luck trying -- Posted by AlecVaginas at 7:33 pm on June 16, 2008 Tell him how you feel. Honestly. He'll understand. -- Posted by the athiest of LW at 7:35 pm on June 16, 2008 Quote: from tenchi1084 at 7:31 pm on June 16, 2008 it's possible. but why? I mean, I like some straight men, but I'm not gonna turn them gay just because I want to take them out on dates. some guys are just not available, that's life. it's unfortunate, but the truth. why not look for those qualities in straight men? I know they are out there. exactly. -- Posted by kenny09876 at 7:36 pm on June 16, 2008 nope, because for 99.9% of the people, its not a choice. its their natural instincts. just accept who he is cause you can't change who your friend is -- Posted by AthenaRuth at 7:36 pm on June 16, 2008 Quote: from AlecVaginas at 7:33 pm on June 16, 2008 Tell him how you feel. Honestly. He'll understand. OK. -- Posted by atomictastic at 7:36 pm on June 16, 2008 OMG!!! No you can not.... Girls that like me are like if they sleep with me they'll turn me un-gay We are BORN gay just as you people are BORN straight -- Posted by mycuteFIEND at 7:39 pm on June 16, 2008 FUCK YOU! You shouldn't hang out with him if you can't take him how he is. What a horrible fucking friend. -- Posted by DanaStar at 7:40 pm on June 16, 2008 NO. -- Posted by Special Agent Orange at 7:42 pm on June 16, 2008 if he grows fond of you somehow then perhaps. i wouldn't know really. -- Posted by TechnoShark at 7:48 pm on June 16, 2008 The ad that popped up under the main post was for "gay chubby dating"...... lmao. -- Posted by SecretsRevealed at 8:10 pm on June 16, 2008 Doubtful.