-- Posted by Anonymous at 2:43 pm on June 17, 2008 The only sex I've seen is from Vanilla Sky where Tom Cruise is raping Cameron Diaz...And it seemed in that scene that he was smashing her, crushing her. Like how does a guy hold himself up during sex? If he laid down on top of her wouldn't he just crush her? In that scene he holds himself up with his elbows but how could he feel anything- wouldn't that be hard to hold yourself up? Like doing pushups? I don't look at porn, I'm scared of it. I never want to look at bad stuff, I just want someone to explain to me, dynamically how it works and how guys don't get tired having to hold selves up. -- Posted by Duke at 2:47 pm on June 17, 2008 It's not that difficult to support yourself, and sometimes you don't have to. I'm a big guy, so I generally do support some of my weight. It's a lot easier than you think. -- Posted by TigressaLynnMae at 3:35 pm on June 17, 2008 Like how does a guy hold himself up during sex? He'll either grasp onto the headboard, behind the girl, or rest himself on one arm, and then later alternate, or place both arms on either side of the girl, and do 'sit ups'...use his elbows...it just takes patience. -- Posted by ultima171 at 5:52 pm on June 17, 2008 i basically lay right on tp of my gf but there are ways for you to shift your weight and i can hold my self up for a long time and if you realize you can't, have her get on top (loads of fun)