-- Posted by princess2brescued at 3:28 pm on June 17, 2008 So my BF and I have been together over 2 years we've had a baby in the past 9 and right now aren't living together because we are at a bad finacial state. Note: we have lived together a good year n a half before this me moving home and him into a cheap place. Latly he's turned into Dr.Jeckal and Mr.Hyde. One day everything is fine and we are happy as we can be given our situation next hes freaking out on me over nothing just starting for no reason. now we only see each other 1x a week Our son and I go out to his apartment and spend the night and then the whole next day together then we go home. this happens at LEAST once a month we're fine and then he doesn't see us and things flip out and then we're fine again. Each time a little worse then before. I don't know if this is a insecurity or if its just him being weird. I'm getting really tired of it though and the fighting one minute fine the next never with a full solution. Can any guys relate to this or give me some form of advice? -- Posted by Cadd Gogg at 3:31 pm on June 17, 2008 You should talk to him.. Tell him that he has to stop that for your baby... I guess this is all I can say.. I hope everything works out okay! :] -- Posted by HelHound at 3:37 pm on June 17, 2008 You should really talk to him. -- Posted by princess2brescued at 3:39 pm on June 17, 2008 I've tried to talk to him and then its better and then REPEAT all over again like 2 months later -- Posted by x Janelle x at 3:44 pm on June 17, 2008 holy shit. -- Posted by MissPrixy07 at 3:50 pm on June 17, 2008 Well, if you've talked to him, I don't know if there's any other advice I can give you. Maybe you should talk to like a therapist about it. If you're worried, you should get some help. Maybe he has a problem. It could just be a normal thing, though. -- Posted by Duke at 3:51 pm on June 17, 2008 My guess is that he's feeling the pressure of having responsibility for a family and is not up to the challenge. You need to have an honest talk with him and try to figure out where your lives are headed. Sounds to me like he is looking for a way out. -- Posted by nikki at 1:29 pm on June 19, 2008 He's clearly struggling not being with you. Is there no way of him living with you and splitting the rent? It's got to be hard on him if he barely sees his child, after all.