-- Posted by dying inside at 6:58 am on June 20, 2008 Has anyone else realised that they are single-handedly destroying their own lives? That all the shit that happens to them is becuase of them? I have, and I'm powerless to stop it.... -- Posted by Fouad at 6:59 am on June 20, 2008 WHO? -- Posted by robdude at 6:59 am on June 20, 2008 We all determine our own destiny -- Posted by ElephantStone at 7:00 am on June 20, 2008 Yes. It tears me apart. -- Posted by LongWayToHappy at 7:01 am on June 20, 2008 yeahhh -- Posted by MelinaEll at 7:02 am on June 20, 2008 If you are doing it to yourself how are you powerless to stop it? :/ -- Posted by dying inside at 7:09 am on June 20, 2008 Quote: from MelinaEll at 10:02 am on June 20, 2008 If you are doing it to yourself how are you powerless to stop it? :/ Because of my past I tend to think too much and therefore ruin all my freindships with other people. I can't stop it, that is unless I was dead. -- Posted by chicklover at 7:12 am on June 20, 2008 yes :( it sucks -- Posted by xoxo1234 at 7:14 am on June 20, 2008 Yup. -- Posted by xcrimsonxtearsx at 3:28 pm on June 20, 2008 ya and i hate it :( -- Posted by dragonking at 1:16 pm on July 2, 2008 Quote: from robdude at 9:59 am on June 20, 2008 We all determine our own destiny That's not true.  Others have an effect, such as getting a job.  We can apply but lots of others do too so it's not our choice to get it. It's not all your fault how things are bad.  People not on purpose or on purpose make things difficult for others.  Don't lose hope just because you did some wrong things.  Others do them too.