-- Posted by thrillskills at 1:32 pm on June 21, 2008 I have been dating this spectacular woman for almost 9 months now and i really am getting confused feelings for her.  I was just on a 5-day cruise and i can say that i missed my baby so much.  But when i came back it was like the love was completely gone and infact i was just plain annoyed by her. i guess i can say that we do have a fair share of fights over dumb things and have stupid little break ups but get back together.not to mention that she is a depressed girl, is very attached to me she also doesnt ever want me to talk to any other women she would have fit. She is a drama queen.      I feel like now that im just falling in a sinkhole with her and i cant get out.  I mean yea i could just break up with her, but so much time and work we put in this relationship would be almost weird to put away in a box. i can probably say that i would miss her so much if i broke up with her, but i dont really know if that qualifies as love.  We have plans on moving to a place with one of my friends and go to school and live in an apartment but i have been dreading it for some reason, and sometimes wondering that it could be good.  i dont have experience in this area of relationship so  tips and adivce would be great.  Mister tough guys no need to post here im not looking for "just break up with her". thanks   -- Posted by yoshiness at 1:35 pm on June 21, 2008 Please don't double space? We don't need it? -- Posted by byebyebeautyful at 1:36 pm on June 21, 2008 ok well you feel like youll miss her because your soo used to her being around. its not good that you feel annoyed around or dread living with her.. id give a bit more time if i were you but it sounds like it will end eventually and youll just have to suck it up , its gonna hurt alot though, i can tell you that -- Posted by thrillskills at 1:36 pm on June 21, 2008 do you want a wall of text? -- Posted by GreyStreetGirl at 1:37 pm on June 21, 2008 sounds like you're more afraid of what life would be like without her and more attached to her than actually in love with her.  Good luck. -- Posted by thrillskills at 1:39 pm on June 21, 2008 so being attache=/=love i dont know