-- Posted by Rabbit4U at 7:23 pm on June 22, 2008 OK, so you all know that I've had a major big crush on a guy at my college for over a year now.  It was quite intense, I really liked him and had an extreme obsession with him. I made myself get over it - I made sure I faded him from my life.  I slowly got away.  But at the same time, whenever I check his Facebook or see things, I notice that there is the POTENTIAL for a lot of drama in his life. Also, a lot of drama may unfold in his girlfriends life.  And I'm not saying I wish bad things on anyone, but hell...I would love to see where they end up in a few months. Is it wrong for me to like the drama or be curious what happens??  If so, how do I stop wanting or craving to know the drama?  Or is it possible Im just making this up in my mind -- Posted by hubert cumberdale at 7:23 pm on June 22, 2008 i like drama. but not when it's on me yo. -- Posted by songofmyheart14 at 7:23 pm on June 22, 2008 drama is fun to watch, but not to be in. -- Posted by snowcone200 at 7:23 pm on June 22, 2008 I do the same thing. -- Posted by Rabbit4U at 7:25 pm on June 22, 2008 But am i making the drama up in my head? I know I pick things out that MIGHt cause problems...Or I just look for patterns. -- Posted by snowcone200 at 7:26 pm on June 22, 2008 Quote: from Rabbit4U at 7:25 pm on June 22, 2008 But am i making the drama up in my head? I know I pick things out that MIGHt cause problems...Or I just look for patterns. I guess it interest you because you think it might end up with them breaking up and leaving each other. Then maybe you could get a chance at him. That or you find drama that concerns him interesting because well you find him interesting and your curious about certain aspects of his life. -- Posted by nat b at 1:56 pm on June 23, 2008 you need to get other friends - once you have your own support system to fall back on, TRUST me, you will become way less interested in this guy's life. If you really like him than hope that the drama will not unfold and him and his gf are happy etc. basically what i am saying is, find a new guy - but dont obsess - date around, keep your options open