-- Posted by colorado at 2:28 pm on June 23, 2008 im a nice guy, but it feels like i have not found a girl worth my time, because she does drugs, or smokes, why have i not found the right girl??? -- Posted by GaelicFreak at 2:29 pm on June 23, 2008 Because it's nowhere as easy as TV makes it look. -- Posted by Amelle at 2:30 pm on June 23, 2008 Because you're still young and one day you will if you don't give up and settle. -- Posted by note to self at 2:30 pm on June 23, 2008 you are looking for the wrong type of girls -- Posted by lunchbox at 2:32 pm on June 23, 2008 The right girl, doesnt really exist for YOU. You will probably this girl that you think is perfect, date her for a bit, and then after a while realize, this isnt what you wanted. Then you will find some one that isnt exactly like you, and you will understand, thats what you have been wanting this whole time. OR, maybe you not straight???? Maybe you like guys..... -- Posted by colorado at 2:33 pm on June 23, 2008 Quote: from lunchbox at 2:32 pm on June 23, 2008 The right girl, doesnt really exist for YOU. You will probably this girl that you think is perfect, date her for a bit, and then after a while realize, this isnt what you wanted. Then you will find some one that isnt exactly like you, and you will understand, thats what you have been wanting this whole time. OR, maybe you not straight???? Maybe you like guys..... i just want a nice girl, and i know i like girls -- Posted by emowhore at 2:34 pm on June 23, 2008 because you have to wait. see you havnt found the right girls but a lot of girls cant find a nice guy. so just hang in there. i mean id kill to have a nice guy, but ya know how that goes. lol. theres not many out there -- Posted by shadowfreak at 2:39 pm on June 23, 2008 sounds like trouble -- Posted by that dude 16 at 3:53 pm on June 23, 2008 whats wrong with a girl that smokes? -- Posted by MrIndigo at 12:33 am on June 26, 2008 Most people our age are immature and shortsighted. Wait a while and maybe you'll find your girl. With the divorce rate in the U.S., I wouldn't put money on it though. -- Posted by brickster2008 at 9:45 am on June 26, 2008 you just have to wait it out...with time, things may work out for you ;) -- Posted by EmilyAnn at 8:38 am on June 27, 2008 Maybe you need to lower your standards. Most people these days do partake in either drugs or drinking, so you're going to have to get used to it. If someone drinks occasionally or whatever, it doesn't make them a bad person. I think I'm a pretty decent person and I love to smoke weed, and occasionally but rarely drink. However, if you're really adamant on looking for someone drug or alcohol-free, good luck. -- Posted by rinasings2u at 12:02 pm on June 27, 2008 Don't lower your standards!! Just start looking in different places. Does your school have a campus ministry, a service organization, student government?? You need to think where your dream girl would hang out and go there! : ) good luck! -- Posted by victoria4951ct at 2:13 pm on June 27, 2008 You can't find a "perfect" girl... If you find somebody that interests you and she feels the same way about you then go for it....your worrying to much about small flaws.. -- Posted by QisQ at 8:52 pm on June 27, 2008 Mrs. Right, is hard to find. How about just somone, cool and chill? Theres plenty of nice girls out there. IDK about beign a nice guy though as your approach. You know the whole "nice guys finish last thing"? Theres a reason why people say that. But umm  yea most chicks don't smoke, so just keep looking. Theres a ton of people in college...get out there. -- Posted by RainBowBow at 11:52 am on June 28, 2008 It is all about the the time, occasion, the magic bro just wait -- Posted by Is this you at 7:04 pm on June 28, 2008 Quote: from that dude 16 at 3:53 pm on June 23, 2008 whats wrong with a girl that smokes? Everything. C'mon.