-- Posted by SaraB at 4:23 pm on June 23, 2008 alright.. well last year my bf was arrested for pot possession. i mean, he was 2nd in his class in high school.. on a scholarship to lsu.. blah blah blah. generally a very good kid. anyways.. 2 weeks ago he got his probation terms in. Cant leave the county for more than 2 nights. cant leave the state PERIOD. (which is bad for him cuz hes got all his friends at lsu, in LA) no going to bars, clubs, or liquor stores, and cant be out after 10 pm. and has to keep a steady job. well.. hes just so... pissy all the time. i know hes upset about it. but he wont get over it and just accept it. i know its hard, its hard on me too. we were supposed to go on a all expense paid FREEEE trip to disney 2 weeks ago.. but found out he couldnt leave the state.. so i had taken off a week of work for nothing. he complains everyday he has to work. hes bitter and mad about everything. i just wish there was a way i oculd help him accept this and be happy. or at least... civil about it. hes just turned so negative.. and its rubbing off on me. ive been there for him so much. but i dont want this to ruin our relationshp. -- Posted by HeyYo17 at 12:53 pm on June 29, 2008 that won't ruin your relationshp... I know of people who were on probation and they were brave and talked about it... that's the key, communication.. i guess you're gonna have to tell him the old "things are never as bad as they seem" i know how much this could hurt because someone i know got in probation too... if you need anything my inbox is always open!